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The Romance of Sex...
11 April 2012

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And the winner is..... Erica. I've emailed you regarding receiving a copy of TO DARE THE DUKE OF DANGERFIELD.

It's a very cold and wet day here in Wellington, New Zealand, and I'm busy finishing off book two in my Wicked Wager trilogy, To Wager the Marquis of Wolverstone. As usual I tend to surf the net when I'm supposed to be writing, and I keep reading loads about the story, Shades of Grey, and the big rise in womens' erotica.

I don't think it's only erotica that has increasing levels of sex. Most romance novels and sex,  go together like roast lamb and mint sauce. You can still eat the lamb without the mint sauce, but it wouldn't set your taste buds alight, or give you that completely satisfied feeling.

I love a bit of sex with my romance, in any story. But the driver for me is the romance. Sex without the passion, or heart-felt longing and need, is just sex. Just sex is boring. Where's the emotion? It's the love driving the passion that makes a story truly erotic for me.

What do you think... Does sex and romance go hand and hand. Leave a comment. One lucky commenter will win a copy of To Dare the Duke of Dangerfield eBook, book one in the Wicked Wagers trilogy.

Here's a snippet from To Wager the Marquis of Wolverstone as an example...

He finally pushed himself off her, and rose from the couch on shaky legs. He walked to fetch them sustenance because he needed a minute to process his feelings. He hadn’t expected to be so moved by the connection he had with Sabine. What they just shared was unlike anything he’d ever experienced with any woman.

He collected their wine glasses and then walked and selected a plate of meats.

“Do you think we’ll ever make it to a bed?” she asked teasingly.

He paused to stare at Sabine. Lying naked on the plush silk of the day-bed, her skin flushed with arousal, she looked like a sensual Goddess. His body stirred once more.

“Not if you continue to stare at me like that,” he answered honestly. “Let’s eat. I’m starving. I’ve been playing cards all day, remember?” He let his gaze wander over her breasts. “Besides, I think I’m going to need sustenance in order not to disappoint you the rest of the night.”

Heat flamed in her face at his bold stare and remark. Then it turned saucy and she began to study him with an expression of appreciation. “Oh, I’m hungry,” she purred, “but not for food.”

Naked desire flared and sped through has veins. It was close to two in the morning, and they’d just made-love, yet his body craved hers once more as an addict craved opium.

“Tonight has already exceeded my wildest fantasies. To have you wanton and eager in my arms is a dream obtained, but what about tomorrow, Sabine?” He ran a hand through his hair. “This time no secrets. No one gets hurt. What is it you want from me?”

The smile fled from her eyes. “Earlier this evening you released me from our wager. I give myself to you of my own free will.” She looked away and softly uttered, “One night, Marcus. It can only be one night and you know it. Too much has happened in our past to think we could make this more. I have a son to think about. And you need to marry. Your mother thinks Amy Shipton a good choice.” She swallowed hard. “And she is. She would do the Wolverstone name proud.” She turned back to him and looked directly at his face. “Something my name will never do. Besides, your mother would never accept me.”

He fought the urge to drop to his knees and deny her statement. They could make a life together. Couldn’t they?
Only if he could truly trust her.

 

 

 

 

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0 # Leslie P Garcia 2012-04-11 23:38
I have no problems with sex in a romance--which means basically I agree about the OTHER intimate relationship--the love, the longing, the belief that there can be an unbreakable relationship-==more important than the sex. I can remember, not too many years ago, when I'd skip the "sweet" to get to the steamy--now I read the pages in order. And reread the heart-rending rather than the mind blowing parts...
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+1 # Janice 2012-04-12 00:04
It's not the presence or absence of sex in the book that matters to me, it's how the sex scenes are used. If they are used to deepen my understanding of the characters and their relationship at that particular point in the story, then it's a good thing. If it's there because some marketing department says it has to be there, then it's bad, because it's not organic to the story. If it's there only to get the reader off, then it's porn - which has its place but I don't think it's romantic or edifying and I don't want to waste my time on it when I could be reading something with a less limited outlook.
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+1 # Janet Mullany 2012-04-12 00:52
Why shouldn't it do everything? Intensify the romance, deepen the characters, AND get the reader off too? Otherwise, really, what is the point?
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0 # Janice 2012-04-12 01:13
I wouldn't have any problem with a book that includes ALL of that. It's only when it does ONLY the 'getting the reader off' part that I think it's specious. Self indulgent. Self gratification often at the cost of another (the thought is father to the deed - if it's OK to use someone like a thing, cause physical or emotional pain, etc,. in a book, then the reader might think it's not so awful in real life either and the behavior gets normalized :)

I think the best books are engaging on ALL levels - emotional and intellectual - and leave the reader feeling that her understanding of life is greater than it was before.
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+1 # Lindsay 2012-04-12 01:14
I write sweet so unless the couple are married and the love scene is behind closed doors I don't write it. On the other hand, if the couple, unmarried, are attracted to each other at the love scene helps to move the story forward and isn't there just to tittilate the reader then it's a waste of words.
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+1 # Cora Lee 2012-04-12 02:07
I agree. I tend toward sweet when I write, too, but I never have a problem reading a spicier story as long as the spice brought the characters closer together.
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+1 # Anne Goodwin 2012-04-12 05:07
I don't mind a bit of sex in a romance book as long as it is well written and believable.
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0 # Alyson 2012-04-12 07:57
Hi, Bronwyn! I read and write romances with steamy scenes. But, honestly, I don’t care to read erotica (in which every single sexual action is described and is often too over-the-top to be realistic for me) and I don’t plan to write it, although I have several friends who do. I gravitate toward stories in which the characters come alive for reasons other than sex. And I prefer heroines to be intellectual and have several interests and/or dilemmas besides “gettin’ it on” with the hero!

Also, when I write historicals and vintage romances, like you, I try to steer clear of too much modern thinking when it comes to sex, language, and culture. Sex in historicals should be treated a little differently from those in contemporary stories. For instance, our great-grandmothers’ generation might have been racy, but most of them were scandalized by women who slept with men they’d just met the same day, or while on a first date… or even their second. ;-)
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0 # Alyson 2012-04-12 08:23
Sorry! I meant Bronwen! I have another friend who spells her name Bronwyn. :oops:
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0 # Beebs 2012-04-12 08:15
I don't mind sex scenes in my books, as long as I can believe that's how those characters would behave at that point in the story. :-)
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0 # Pam Rosenthal 2012-04-12 15:48
Because sex and love are both interesting. Or should be, if the characters are real enough and the relationship fraught and compelling enough, the situation edgy enough (as all real love relationships are for pity sake because they're all and always based on risk).

Because sex makes love more interesting and complicated and vice versa, duh.

Because you want, as Janet Mullany says, to tell the whole story. Don't you?

It's my belief that if you have to justify the sex by saying it moves the relationship forward, the relationship wasn't all that interesting in the first place. OF COURSE the sex moves the relationship forward; of course the relationship moves the sex forward. The ways in which this happens should be surprising in the ways that people are surprising. Otherwise, why bother?
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0 # Beth Mast 2012-04-12 23:53
I don't mind sex in the books I read. As long as the sex doesn't take over the book. The friction of passion can add to the story. Does a romance HAVE to have it? no, but it does make it more interesting! :P

Beth
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0 # Erica McFarland 2012-04-13 00:22
I look for well-written sex that is character-based and promotes the storyline. I want the sex scenes to be about the connection between the two characters and their chemistry. That's what makes the romance genre so interesting.
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0 # Jakki L. 2012-04-13 00:29
I do not mind sex in a romance novel. I do however, want it to be well written and aid in furthering the plot and characters relationship!
Thanks for the giveaway!
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0 # Whitney K-E 2012-04-13 04:40
I don't think it matter if there are sex scenes are not, but rather how you use them. They should be something that you emotionally and physically build up to. The tension between the characters keeps your readers on edge and IMO, waiting for the act as much as the characters themselves.
It always needs to have a reason, meaning and emotions behind it otherwise the scene is insignificant.
But these are my opinions. :)
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0 # bn100 2012-04-15 08:31
I think they go together.
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0 # Shannon Donnelly 2012-05-02 14:54
It's about the writer's passion. If there's passion in the sex scenes, if it's about more than body parts, if it's vital to the plot, it's great.

There is nothing worse, however, than a writer who is bored by the sex--any scene that bores the writer is going to bore the reader.
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